As I sit here I tell myself to not be bitter or judgemental about someone elses choices...but with me that is easier said then done. But it all boils down to that we all make choices. Some choose to have unprotected sex which results in a child. Not that I support abortion at ALL! But it is not the childs fault. Was it too hard to put a condom on or take birth control pills? I mean really!?! I am not claiming that I am perfect but when it comes to someone body it is your responsibity to prevent something that you aren't ready for...That's what is called taking reponsibility for your actions...you know be an adult! Why should the rest of us PAY for your laziness...
I know what a bitch I am! When you have been on the other side of fertility you can vent! Troy and I have struggled through three miscarrages and all the horrible emotions that come along with it. All the why's and what is wrong with me that I can't carry a baby to term.? It makes you very bitter and sometimes even hate yourself! When all you seem to see if everyone else with babies! Not just happy families with babies but "kids" with babies!! Which is so sad to me. Every child has the right to be in a home with a Mom and Dad..not some home with a teenage Mother who is having her Mother raise the kid..you know what I mean? Would it be too much to ask that maybe you would give your baby up for adoption so it can have a REAL chance in the world?! Kids are not toys or something cool to have to dress-up! I understand that we sometimes fall on hard times finically but is it our responsiblilty as tax payers to pay for everything...birth,food stamps,Medicaid?! Go out be productive and make your own money. I know it sounds harsh but I am sick of people taking advantage of the system. Ok,that is all I am going to say for now...just remember if you are out there sowing your oats protect yourself..use a condom or something!!!
Rico
August
Lanta
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Wow, I hope all is alright! Thanks for the vent. It was hard not to have those feelings when we lost our baby and my teenage cousin got pregnant the next month with a normal healthy baby! I totally understand and remember all the pain you guys went through! Love you guys!
I know how you feel! On top of all of your rants, here is mine.... those teen parents who dont raise their children, I then have to deal with at the police department because they turn out just like their parents refusing to take responsibility for their actions, and of course the parents dont see what is wrong with that! RANT ON!! Im always listening!
I concur. grandad alan
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